I just read that someone (S) in our group is having intense pain. Right now he's stuck in bed waiting to get to the doctor. The treatment plan prescribed by the doctor is not going as hoped or planned. BTW - I think he had his vasectomy 10 and a half weeks ago.
I don't know them very well, other than we all share a common foe. They seem like nice people who are just trying to do the best with what they have and I'm so far away and feel somewhat powerless to help. However, my preacher would tell me that I can pray for them, so I will.
So you still want to get that vasectomy? Still feel like rolling the dice? Please, don't do it. There are other birth control measures that don't require risking your quality of life.